Noted Denver and thanks. I think the purse would do. My other choice was a watch, but I think a purse is more "non-romantic". I don't know I got to hit the mall one of these days maybe I'll think/find something else.

I was thinking about what you said about detaching. I failed so far, so I will try to detach again.

Hi Galbaby, thanks for catching up. I haven't really ventured out to the MLC section, I hope you're doing well with your sitch. Yeah I notice a few peeps reaching crossroads in their sitch, I don't know maybe it's the holiday blues. Anyway on my sitch, I feel like 2013 will have some changes. I really don't think I can do this same limbo again next year, but we'll see.

BTW, here's the latest on my WAWs rewriting history. According to her we didn't take any vacation. Which is not true because every summer we plan to go somewhere. Sure maybe it's not international or by plane but we did go places as a family, mostly local but nevertheless it's a vacation! One time we even went to south america. So how can she say we "never" did go on vacations? Ugh, I was just speechless and almost fell off my chair when i heard her say that. This came about because we were talking about thanksgiving and how folks travel.

I also know that this is embedded in her head, she told me before in this ordeal how the OM went to different far places with his family for vacation. And of course she bought that story, sure maybe it's true but I suspect it's heavily sugar coated but geez at least give it a benefit of a doubt.

Alright that's off my chest. Thanks for listening.

newman


me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.