I would be pi$$ed too if H was taking a leisurely vacation to deal with "his stress!" That is just the icing on the cake, isn't it?!
LIke you said though, he doesn't have any money so isn't likely that OW will be going. The truth is this OW is so inconsequential to the problems he is dealing with. HE is not going to be happy w her, b/c he is dragging the same problems that caused him to leave you with him!
I've been reading a lot about MLCers & yours sounds very classic. Don't take what he is doing personally--it isn't about you...it is all about HIM. And, he can't see past his own face in the mirror.
Sweet, what specifically are you doing for yourself? What brings a smile to your face? You (and I) need to take the focus off our H's and channel our energy to all the blessings in our lives. I know, easier said than done.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
