just ran into W as I was dropping kids books of at her place; I was hoping not to see her..I have to meet some people tonight for the board that I am on and did not have time...she kept talking to me and I kept saying I have to go..she wants to come over and get her kiln...she wants to teach art at her house..pipe dream as a board member for a private school this is all regulated by the state etc you have to have a liscense and be inspected by the state and have insurance long story...
but how do you act if you are detached?...I know that when I was detached from a relationship in the past I just looked at that person as if they were a distant aquaintence. I can't be "best friends" with someone I was in a serious relationship with...just can't do it...
