Trying really hard to be Thankful today...

[Sweetbriar]

Thanks for the advice...I appreciate it and I do think that I just need to let the comments he makes just go...it isnt worth thinking about over and over.

Tonight Im really upset though...I got an email asking for his passport card..which, of course, made me curious. I was on the phone with a friend telling her about it and how I was sure he was taking OW somewhere (although he has NO money...) and my D14 heard me and said "mom, I know where dad is going..he told me" apparently, his VERY RICH uncle and his uncle's family is treating him to a Mexico vaca for New Years Eve. Now, get this....he told D14 they are taking him because....HE HAS BEEN UNDER SUCH STRESS LATELY... OMG..are you kidding me...he caused every single bit of this stress...

So, firstly, I still have doubts that he is going with uncle and not OW...but..he doesnt have money...so Im not sure how he would take her anywhere..but he could be. I know this is guessing on my part and making me upset...but I cant help but to think it. Also, he has hated his uncle his whole life for how awful of man he is and how rich he is..so its very strange that he would choose to go on a vacation with him and his cousins.

What pisses me off is that Im the one home doing all the responsible things and pregnant and he can just make vacation plans like its nothing...no big deal...

Im so sad pissed and sad...

Just another selfish move on H's part...just showing how he only cares about himself...I just dont think he will be able to change...

I guess because he was so with held in his childhood and teen years (wasnt allowed to do anything) and then he got married to me and was tied down to responsibility, he is now just doing anything and everything he can to be free...

must be friggin nice to be able to not have a care in the world...