Bug there is no alanon here. I did look to see what was available online. I'm not sure how effective that would be though.
Apparently H called here tonight and was nasty to all of the kids. He also closed his bank account and opened a new one so in a nutshell I am stuck with ALL the bills now. I have a bit of a problem with that. Whatever. I guess if it gets rid of him though the money is worth it.
Any way he asked my S where I was. He told him working, H replied she doesn't work on Thursday I am sure she spent the day with her BF. lol Then apparently he talked to D11 and asked her what she was going to do when she didn't have a dad anymore and why did she lie about him? He's freaking nuts. I talked to him for all of 2 m,in 30 secs. He was angry with me too. Said he wanted to set up a time to come get the rest of his stuff. I said, when did you have in mind. His reply of course, "I don't know." Then he went into the canceling his account and stuff. So I just said well I guess if I have to go ahead and pay everything so I don't have to deal with drama I will go ahead and do that. Then he started in on me again and I just said, I have to go. Call me when you decide you would like to come get your stuff. We can do it some time when I am not working because I want to be here. Bye. And I hung up. I stayed very calm. Didn't really get rude except for the drama comment.
Not sure what his issue is. It is obvious he is furious. I don't care. His issue not mine. I have had a really good day. I sort of think he is mad that I am getting on with my life and frankly, lots of positive things are happening. I have to wonder if it is a sign for me to keep moving forward.
I'm not real familiar with alanon. What exactly do they do?
