Thanks Tori for popping in. To be honest I can't believe I am here. But I am and I am happy. Not only do I know what I want but I CAN SAY IT OUTLOUD (Tumbling, capitals is shouting!). That has been the hardest thing for me to do - having the confidence to express my Self.
It was kind of weird when I put the "done" dress on. I didn't even realise I had been trying it on for a few days til I found I didn't want to take it off. And when I sent the text - it was like a weight came off me. I realised that I had been allowing him to control how my life would be and that I wanted to make the choices from now on.
I am sure I will continue to need the board's support as I move forward down this road so thanks in advance for being there.
And I promise I will try to make you laugh and will share my thoughts on your sitch.
Interestingly while you were on my thread - I appear to have been on yours (BTB)