Thanks Tori for popping in.
To be honest I can't believe I am here. But I am and I am happy. Not only do I know what I want but I CAN SAY IT OUTLOUD (Tumbling, capitals is shouting!). That has been the hardest thing for me to do - having the confidence to express my Self.

It was kind of weird when I put the "done" dress on.
I didn't even realise I had been trying it on for a few days til I found I didn't want to take it off.
And when I sent the text - it was like a weight came off me.
I realised that I had been allowing him to control how my life would be and that I wanted to make the choices from now on.

I am sure I will continue to need the board's support as I move forward down this road so thanks in advance for being there.

And I promise I will try to make you laugh and will share my thoughts on your sitch.

Interestingly while you were on my thread - I appear to have been on yours (BTB)