Yes, we both read 5 Love languages back last Dec\Jan. She even referred it to some friends and was into it and we were starting to connect and had a very good Nov, Dec, Jan and most of Feb except when I wanted to deal with trust at end of Feb and the A and all went south. We started to recover a little Mar after her second round of begging, but I think she was just buying time until she decided.
Lost my job today after almmost 17 years there and good money....that won't help. I am well connected so I plan to take Dec off and begin anew in Jan. She will not be impressed though...I guess I cannot wory about wwhat she thinks though and work on me, right?


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.