He has not been physically abusive. I told him I am not getting contacts. I don't fit into his box regarding what a "wife" should be and neither do the kids. I believe that irks him. I feel he is somewhat jealous when I fix things (which I enjoy and he does not do) then I get the threats about money or when I did some molding in the bathroom he said we'd have to remove it incase of a flood.(I told him he better not and he didn't) I wanted him to be proud not mad. I think I will tell him if he wants to hug me only at night in bed that it's got to be more than just things his way. It's like being used.
