Thanks LITB, I guess he anger probably did affect me slightly yesterday but no where near the extent it used to. I didn't transfer the money back because of his anger though. He didn't ask me to and I did it once he calmed down and was talking properly. I did it because my Children were going to miss out on decorating the tree. They have been looking forward to it.

I told him that it would be the last time I helped him out and I meant it. If he does not fix it all up next week, I will be taking it further.

Him bringing the kids in to it, did affect me but I did not let him know that.
He is trying to control me in other areas and is frustrated because it is not working. Little things like asking me to look at PCs for him because he does not know what he is looking for. I tried to tell him some Min specs but he just said I was talking another language. No doubt he will be pissed today when I tell him I haven't looked at the links he sent me.

The money is a what he has to pay. As soon as he starts skipping payments or if he does not get it up to date next week, I will call and have them do it for me. He is supposed to be giving me slightly more than he has to. I'm not counting on it but would like to find out before I take other avenues.

Thanks again LITB. I know your right. Everybody tell me I'm too nice, especially to H. I guess that has to stop.


M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths