Andrew, you said, "I feel as if I'm stuck in the crosshairs of LRT and near Piecing. Thoughts on that one?"

I still think this is Piecing. LRT is used when the S clearly says she wants out. But your W said she wants (or at least is reconsidering) being with you. The relapse in regard to the OM was kind of expected, I guess. My H did the same, but he wasn't honest about it. I'm not sure if she's being 100% honest. Only she knows.

This IC appointment seems to be taking an incredible amount of time to happen. Something is not right. But you must know better, since you're living the sitch.

I hope the IC helps. I still think it would be good for you to talk to Jody...