Brief contact today when W dropped of S16 whom she had taken to mall for birthday shopping trip.
She announced "Going to meet w/friend1 on Saturday morning" (Friend1 has known us since teenagers. She was moms best friend, has offered her a place to live) I said "Great, it's been a while, I thought maybe she was being pushy w/you." She asked why, I said because my Dad who is in FL asked if we were talking to anyone way back when this started. I told him yes, friend1. He said "that surprises me, she can be pushy" my W said not pushy at all and looking forward to talking to her.
I am glad about this because friend1 is adamantly pro M, pro R, loves us both like family, my wife doesn't find her pushy. I just want W to have someone like that to pour her heart too...hoping it will be healing for her. I have this forum, and pastor. Seems she has no wise council yet.
My anniversary is in 8 days. Don't want to ignore. Don't want to make mistakes.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
