Yes he can be passive aggressive. H also somewhat controlling. Has been bugging me to get contacts but the doctor advised against it and h won't accept it. So I took off my glasses at a restaurant and h was looking around the room. Seemed to me he was looking at a woman behind me several times but denied it. Also, doesn't always take my feelings into consideration if he disagrees with me. So if he wants to hold me in bed should I do it? Should I say something about it being a two way street?