I'm glad you've made a decision about the flowers. She may surprise you and enjoy them. Sending flowers was something that you use to do, so it just might be something she appreciates.
Whatever happens, your intentions were good. Don't sweat it!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
