I am just so confused. My mind goes back and forth so much between we could try again to no it wouldn't work.
Of course you feel that way, it's been 2 years!!! It sounds to me like you're doing the right thing and the advice here is golden as well. Take it slow, date, get to know each other. Make him pursue you! If he wants you he needs to earn your trust back! I think moving in by Christmas would be too fast considering how long you've been apart.
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He would like to move things along faster, but I told him. I spent 2 years trying to forget him and move on, I can't just flip a switch and turn all me feelings back on again.
It's good that you're explaining to him where you are. I think ya'll are in a great place to seek out a good MC. Retrouvaille might be good as well if it's offered in your area.
