I did not know he had remarried. That is the part about divorce that bothers me the most. I think my kids would have a really difficult time watching their dad spending more time with someone else's kids.

That is the part about divorce I don't think most people think about when it comes to family. I can't remember if I read it in DB or DR or another place that it is not a divorce between the spouses but the family. I think that is so true and I also think that is why my kids freaked out when he left with that woman. I'm glad he is seeing that because "he" did that and he has to take that responsibility.

Personally, I don't see how a marriage between 2 cheating people can work. How can they ever truly trust the other? Not our problem. I think when you are ready to date they will be happy for you knowing that you were there for them when they needed you. Does D14 say anything to him? How long has it been since D and he remarried?

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out