Thank you T2, Snod, hrm, reaching and TJP - for all your help -
Snodderly I am never sure about anything anymore - I have been praying like crazy and I told God weeks ago in prayer that when I can't make up my mind about things please guide my therapist - she thinks the flowers are a good idea - not acknowledging a milestone anniversary may get me into more hot water even though she is acting single. I haven't purchased or sent a card, note, said I love you or anything romantic since March so sending this is actually kinda a 180. For the 1st 10 years we were together - I used to buy her flowers every month but of course I slacked off on that -- I have decided to sent them -- let's see how the MLC spins this time LOL
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!