Just send it and see what happens. At least the aching feeling of needing to reach out to her will be gone.
Eventually you might consider telling her that while you love her, you're done waiting for her. What is she going to do? Only you can decide when the time for this is right, if ever.
So true , Just send and see what happens. I can tell you that she will not respond im sure. But I'm just going to work past this feeling today. this too will pass..
But you realy do have a point that at some point i will send that 2nd message you said. Im done waiting for you. see what happens.
Think about it what is the worst that can happen im in the same spot i am not but with the deffinet answer if she says fine im done too...
One thing i can say is that me and my step daughter talk all the time on face book. we get along very well. and to top it off she was one of the reason my WAW said she had a problem with.