My latest analogy.... he's like a wee prairie dog sticking his head out of his little prairie dog hole to see if it's "safe" to come out.... the smallest thing could spook him into running back down into his prairie dog tunnel!
Did you know they use giant vacuums to get the little suckers out of their holes? lol... ah wouldn't I like to see H sucked up in a vacuum... one with a clear canister so I can watch him whip around ...and around ...and around...
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
