Is It really Worth it?

[Ready2Quit]

I think you have just hit the nail on the head! He is playing us both! I have read emails from both of them and she has said the same thing to him about him getting mad at her he runs to me and vice a versa! I have tried the "she's gone or your gone" approach. That lasted two months. He keeps telling me they are just friends now and he doesn't "love" her but I know that is not true. I have been giving him everything I have, Love, I don't question him about anything, I am happy when he comes home. Before if I had found out about that message, it would have been another fight. just like I did on Tuesday I kept my mouth shut. So how much longer should I continue to do this before he realizes he doesn't need her?

I don't want to be the fool, but I feel like one. I am out of options except the last step and telling him to get out and I file. I guess my self- respect would be worth filing bankruptcy, selling my house, moving my kids out of the home and starting over. It doesn't seem so bad now.

Funny thing is I think he would flip his lid if I did that. I think they both get off with the sneaking around stuff and complaining about each other's spouse. I really think I have come to the end.