Isn't it weird how our emotions run. Sad, angry, lonely, helpless ... everything. I'm reading DR and When the Vows Break. I love DR because I really do think I want to save my marriage, but I also think it will help me with future relationships. When the Vows Break is writen by a Christan lawyer who went through a divorce, so it is first hand experiences .. which I love because he KNOWS how it feels. I'm still early in both books because I'm also doing Divorce Care daily devotions and they are so good that I'm doing more than one a day. IF you are a Christian or just need a place to turn to ... Divorce Care daily devotions are really good, it is written by counselors, but has excerpts from people who have been through it. The very first devotion made me cry like a baby, it just touched me so much.


Me: 41
H: 43
M: 21 yrs
DD: 15

1st bombshell: 2002 - 6 months
2nd bombshell/moved out: 10/03/2012
OW: 10/12/2012
Signed MDA & PP: 11/20/12; but not submitting
Confirmed OW living with H: 11/21/12