I have to disagree with a lot of what you are saying. His anger is affecting you, whether you want to admit it or not. Otherwise you wouldn't have transferred the funds back to him, which wasn't a good idea.
Please, do not allow him to manipulate you like that.
All of this back and forth suggest that money is an issue. Just because you pretend it is not one, does not make the problem go away. As others have said, please consider getting an agreement in place to avoid any ambiguity.
When it comes to money, it usually does not turn out to be a productive convo that gets you closer to your goal. I hated these exchanges with my W. HATED THEM. Limit them.
In your last post, you said, "I told him" several times. Show him and quit telling him. Your actions and your words must align and be consistent, otherwise he will not respect you either.
These phrases are cliche, but the hold a lot of truth.
-Actions speak louder than words.
-Talk is cheap.
Time to get busy putting your plan in place and acting on it.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
