Thanks another stander,I was thinking along those lines of no getting h anything. It's very hard being in the dark and not know what's going on. I told him at the start that it was easier on me if he never stopped,he got very upset and kept coming. I was going to change the code on the door but what I read on here before that because it is still his house as well that I can't legally do that. Yes I have thought of moving on,and he told me to,but I live in a very small town so not many options,also not ready for that.
