Do I Have a Chance?

[complicated]

I will not tolerate OW. I could afford to live on my own and in our house though it would be a little tough. I had already figured out all of that since we got about a month from our court date. Since he has been gone so long I will definitely proceed with caution if he thinks he wants to move back and work on it.

Of course I am thinking a great deal about the kids. They also do not want OW involved and this became very clear to him with this trip he took. Whether or not this is/was a relationship or a friendship, they did not like it at all. He has always been a "pleaser" so he usually takes what they say. Actually, I believe that is most of his depression problem. He does so much for everyone and feels he gets nothing in return. That was a major gripe he had with me. He felt like he did so much and didn't feel appreciated.