I looked into Retrouvaille but it isn't offered in our area.
The differences between DB'ing and piecing is something I'm looking for more clarification on. "Don't bring up R talk" is one of them.
We went to MC 8-10 times over a few months up until a couple months ago. When we explained where we were and W 'awakening', the MC basically said she thought 'we made it' and didn't need her anymore. My W agreed. MC said come back if we got stuck on anything.
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing