Tori and Labug, I appreciate your thoughts, warm wishes, and advice.
As far as the book, that's what I thought, just wanted to double check.
As far as IC, I'm not putting all or much faith in it. W did set up an appt for this Friday. This IC has spent a fair amount of time just talking with her on the phone which seems nice. W likes the sound of her voice, "soothing." She's a bit fearful of, "what if she tells me to divorce you?" I responded in 2 ways, "one that's really not their job to tell you what to do, and what if she tells you to stay with me?" So we'll see what happens for her with that.
As far as "romance," I used to be a hopeless romantic. I let that die. I never followed through. I can do that. I'm just don't want to overdo anything. I feel as if I'm stuck in the crosshairs of LRT and near Piecing. Thoughts on that one?
Also, last night, I went to bed early last night / reading too. She welcomed a good night kiss. She came to bed later, we snuggled and it felt better than the night before. More natural. This morning, she was friendly, and offered me a goodbye kiss.
I've realized I need to definitely reset my detachment, put some of my walls back up for me and keep on working the DB process.
So we'll see what happens for her with that.