Many Worries, you have an interesting collection of past posts.

They show some a very different persona from this seemingly out of control, full of fear, cheated on spouse who got info "on another marriage board". You gave lots of advice to those dealing with affairs.

I found no posts about your almost affair. Were you posting under another account at the time?

Did you post about your recent problems on the other marriage board?

Did they give you good advice?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss