Rachael, From what you posted in response to Mr. Bond's posting, I have this strange feeling that your h looks to you as a "mother figure". He seeks you out only when he is anxious or wants to be intimate, i.e., in other words for comfort. He needs to look at you as his wife, companion and mother of his children. He needs to learn to respect you for who you are. I do agree w/Mr. Bond that you need to pull back and allow him to come to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
