2. Is he back and trying to work things out with OW again? She's the one who threw him out.
Maybe, time will reveal all of this.
Originally Posted By: Snookee
3. Do I confront all of this or just use my DB skills and go about my life?
I don't feel comfortable just letting him be in the house that he was away from for 6 months. I'm afraid that he may be trying to get back with OW and that he's setting all of this up at my home. This is EXACTLY how it went down in April. I'm not going to be that stupid wife again who had no idea that this was going on until he said he was moving out. I know he wants me to initiate lovemaking and be a wife but I need to know that this is going somewhere positive. I don't want to nag either. Hellllppp
You need to have a healthy boundary. I think he is pulling you back in because he knows that you will let him. You need to break the cycle, you can not be in a relationship with him while there are 2 people involved. You need to have patience. Nothing is going to resolve itself this fast or in this manner. I would not be his wife as far as lovemaking goes without having him tested for STD's.
Would you go out with a stranger on the street, and let him do these things? Treat him the same way. How about dating first.
