not to speak for Bruce, but if I understood correctly, yes he has a lawyer and his L filed for shared custody recently...
Bruce, how did your w take it when she saw the filing?
Also Bruce, I' will ponder your response in more detail. Really read Bond's post to you again since he's male it may help you more.
OTOH when I see him ask you about her specific complaints and you refer to them as "sulking" and HER bad humor, it makes me think you are missing the point.
Also, her letter sounds resolute (as they often do) and it sounds as if you have been fighting a lot before she wrote it.
It does NOT sound like something that came out of the blue,
or she'd have been listing examples and specifics. She didn't feel the need to do that though-
and it's probably b/c she thinks anyone in your shoes would know what she's referring to...
make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016