A newcomer's story

[justjudy]

Thanks labug. The longer my sitch continues the more I realise my own contribution to the downward spiral. Yes I believe H is going thro MLC and has made incredibly self centred choices over the last year but realistically I can't sit back and believe my actions in our R had no significance.

Here's my latest head spin tho - and I would really be interested in a few other PICs please? I am currently out of town at a conference (my first ever, have been focussing on career...seems to be working!) Anyway H quite happy to have D10 for me. So yesterday morning before school, D10 and I dropped into Hs place
to drop off her stuff. We were chatting in the driveway - H, me D10 & D10s suitcase. A couple walked past, the guy said a cheery hello then, obviously noticing the suitcase, laughingly said "she's not kicking you out is she?" To which H replied, also laughingly, "not yet". My jaw just hit the floor!!! He moved out 10 months ago!!! How did his brain even come up with that response given our situation????