I'm glad that you seem to be making progress and realizing that your H still has a ways to go. The fact that he is going to MC says something, as well as his story changing. He is working through his issues with you as you go through the process.
Just remember that you should be looking to start a new M with him, not to revert to how things were pre-bomb. You want to start fresh.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together