This morning H mentioned that he was giving a presentation at a school in Woodstock today. I said, "I know Woodstock" (it's a town that's v close to where I did my graduate studies). H said in an annoyed voice, "I know where Woodstock is too, thank you v much". I was really taken aback by how aggressive he sounded and asked what was wrong with me knowing it. He said "nothing". He is weird sometimes. Does anyone understand what might have been going on in his mind?
If this happens again you might want to consider setting a boundary to let him know that you will not accept being talked to in a disrespectful manner.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl