It's not the money that is bothering me. If this continues, I do have other avenues I can take. I'm giving him a chance to do this the better way. It's also better for me because the other way I would be getting it monthly. It's only just started so I expected an adjustment period. I just wanted to state early, that this will not be continuesly acceptable.
My issue is him placing the children in the middle of this. That's ultimately out of my control. All I can do is be there for them, the best way I can be.
I'm just looking for advice on how to handle the situation with minimal impact on my children.
I can't say for sure H is going through MLC but its a definite possibility and so far he really fits the descriptions. So I was hoping for some advice as to the best way to handle things.

I still haven't done anything yet but I will wait until tonight. I will call him and see if he is willing to talk. I'm thinking he probably will not answer anyway.
I don't know if I will send him a message or not, if he doesn't answer.

If I have not heard from him, when the children are getting ready for bed, then I might just tell them, That they might not be able to go this weekend.

I have no idea what reason to give them when they ask.
I'm hurt but only partially suprised. I kinda didn't think he would do this to the children but I'm getting used to him being so unpredictable.
It just hurts that they have to go through this.


M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
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