Don't be too hard on yourself Terry, we all make mistakes. The smart thing to do is to learn from them. She needs some space to herself right now, give it to her. Keep posting, we are here to help you.
Which book(s) are you reading?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl