I have been pulling back this week. Before I would hug him or tell him I love him. H has gone to a couple of counselling sessions. He is supposed to go next week. Yes I hope he will want to give me affection. I only get it when he is anxious or wants to be intimate. But that has been going on for a good deal of our marriage. It's just that I've never been happy with that and now I have made that clear. I'll see what he does.