mrsrjd~ You should definitely try yoga, it is soooo much fun! You are absolutely right, we have no idea what could be in store for us, and I definitely didn't see this mess coming! Thank you for the reminder!
WH~ LOL I know, recent events have left me speechless at times too! I truly believe no situation is hopeless, I think there is always hope, I guess I'm ever the optimist! Thank you for your encouragement!!
snodderly~ I thought you would be happy to hear I didn't chop down a tree on my own! LOL Thank you so much for your kind words, they really mean a lot to me, I mean that with all of my heart snodderly. And I won't give up the baby dream, I can't, not yet, I'm not ready.
T~Hey stranger! *in the mind of an MLCer, perhaps* Wait.... wait.... what do you mean there are other people besides me.... I thought the world revolved around me! You mean people aren't here to do my biding?!? J/K LOL
Yeah, on a more serious note, he's definitely still depressed, that's my counselor's assessment too, based on what I tell him anyway. My latest analogy.... he's like a wee prairie dog sticking his head out of his little prairie dog hole to see if it's "safe" to come out.... the smallest thing could spook him into running back down into his prairie dog tunnel! (Kinda like our feral analogy).
I have always been open to the adoption option. Before I new about my fertility issues I had always wanted to do both. We will see what the Lord has in store. Thank you for sharing the information you did with me, I will let you know when I would like some more info, again, thank you, I really appreciate it!
Also thank you for the complements, I'm glad I am able to inspire and help people look for or find the humor. It's funny you mention that, a co-worker recently told me I'm really good at finding the positive in situations, even when other co-workers are being negative. I do really appreciate knowing I can bring a little happiness to people, or help them find the happiness, know what I'm trying to say?
I hope you are able to find some of that humor in W's behavior. Hey if you need a laugh, I have one for you. The other evening I went into the bathroom to brush my teeth, H was already in there brushing his. I went to grab my toothbrush, and he had apparently inadvertently picked up mine!
I looked over at him brushing away and said with a smile, "Is there a reason you are using my toothbrush?" He stopped brushing, looked absolutely horrified, slowly took the brush out of his mouth, looked at it in disbelief, started apologizing as he vigorously rinsed it off! It was hilarious!!! I couldn't help but crack up laughing, the look on his face with priceless!!! I told him it was no big deal. Like I said, hilarious!!!
No real updates he's been a bit more distant, but that's to be expected. He actually smiled and said hello to the co-worker I had in the house this evening. Three of us had a training to go to so we met at my house. When we got back the one co-worker came in to use the bathroom and I showed her around the house since she's never been here before (yes she knows the sitch), but I trusted her to handle interacting with him and she handled it well.
