Thank you TVS and rH! You made me smile... DB Jedi... lol...guess with the grey in my experimental facial hair that makes me Obi-Wan, then? rH, I hope she doesn't take too long either, because I do know that historically, when I do eventually get "done" with something, I tend to not look back...there is a lot I can adjust to, let go of as not a deal breaker, and all, but there are things I will not. Emotional connection, physical, laughter, working towards something, etc., are things I want. i do not want a "going through the motions" life. I don't know how much longer I want to wait, whether 3 weeks, 3 months or 3 years, but I don't worry about it too much because I trust MYSELF now (finally) to know when... T^2
You never cease to inspire me T2 - your so consistent, strong and positive !!!
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!