I said it above, but I think I still look okay. I wear the the extra 75lbs I gained in the last 3 years pretty well. some of it was muscle also.
The person I suspect she's having the affair with is my friend from college. Tony. Their emails seem innocent but after reading about the things people do to cover up affairs I am supicous
My wife is 44 and I am in 38. Our kids are 7 and 9.