No R talk with any spouse who wants to dump you! It only reinforces their decision to leave. I understand you want to fix this RIGHT NOW, but DB doesn't work like that. Your goal is just to not make things worse with her for right now. Relax a bit, take a deep breath and calm yourself down.
Work on YOU, take care of YOU.
Are you even reading DR or DB?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
