BM, Sorry you had a rough holiday weekend. Looks like you handled it like a champ. He will continue to push your buttons, he will continue to come up with his own opinions of you.
Unfortunately you cannot change this or stop this process from happening. Be your best true self and maybe one day he will see it.
Originally Posted By: BklynMom
I feel like I am being abused and I keep going back for me. He tells me he hates me and I want to run into his arms. I am sick. I need to move on.
You will get there. I was told where the head goes the heart follows.. and it's so true.
Plus the more your realize YOUR self worth - the less you want to move back towards him. The more you see people fighting to be and stay in your life, they less you will care that he doesn't.
It will all happen... in it's own time.
You just keep detaching with love and attacking every hurdle they way you have. When this is all over - you will be glad of the path you've chosen.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
