I have been keeping a calendar for over a year. Its really simple cause the never calls and just comes every other weekend so the book keeping is simple.
Thank you so much for your support snodderly it means a lot.
The path I have chosen for now is the one of least resistance, he can spew whatever and I do my best to ignore and move on.
I don't need to teach him how to grow up.
I do agree that I should get more boundaries but those will come with time.
Thanks again all, you have know idea how much I need to come to these boards for my own survival
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13