Hey Newman, just been catching up on your sitch. I'm sorry to hear that the peeps I've most followed on this board are all at the crossroads in their M's at this point and ready to let go. I so admire the strength and courage of all of you. Its such a painful journey. There there is no doubt that you all have taken the higher road, and will continue to do so.

As far as the gift I think a new purse would be suitable.