Originally Posted By: bustingout
Thank you Breakdown. :-)

I do really really struggle with boundaries. I am still in the mindset of 'oh its not cake eating...its him being nice'

I know. thats not the right mindset.


Labug...'uncomfortable'. hmmm... well. maybe I felt indignant but I kept it to myself.

I also felt hurt being reminded of how I felt the last time I saw this girl.

Uncomfortable was a mild way to put it I suppose.



Yeah, but I am watching you take the advice here, use what you need and you are making some really good decisions with some really good language smile

Besides, uncomfortable means different things to different people, right? ;p

For me, in this case uncomfortable would be "Apparently you have lost what little is left of your ever loving mind..."

See, for you, it was "I am not comfortable with it and she would have to be more respectful." I seriously bow down.....

Ruby