Thank you Breakdown. :-)

I do really really struggle with boundaries. I am still in the mindset of 'oh its not cake eating...its him being nice'

I know. thats not the right mindset.


Labug...'uncomfortable'. hmmm... well. maybe I felt indignant but I kept it to myself.

I also felt hurt being reminded of how I felt the last time I saw this girl.

Uncomfortable was a mild way to put it I suppose.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home