This isn't really related to my sitch... but I for some reason I found it to be an interesting interaction:
Last night W informed me she was really frustrated with one of her very close friends. (This is her bipolar friend that I’ve mentioned before)
Yesterday her friend told her she was thinking about getting divorced. W is very annoyed by it. She believes her friend had the best marriage possible, best sx life, and best connection. In the past she’d mentioned to me how she envies their relationship.
W said, “She needs to slow down and think. These types of things can’t be suddenly decided. Look at us! We’ve been at this how long.. and we don’t know what we’re doing!”
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done