This isn't really related to my sitch... but I for some reason I found it to be an interesting interaction:

Last night W informed me she was really frustrated with one of her very close friends. (This is her bipolar friend that I’ve mentioned before)

Yesterday her friend told her she was thinking about getting divorced. W is very annoyed by it. She believes her friend had the best marriage possible, best sx life, and best connection. In the past she’d mentioned to me how she envies their relationship.

W said, “She needs to slow down and think. These types of things can’t be suddenly decided. Look at us! We’ve been at this how long.. and we don’t know what we’re doing!”


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done