Just my thoughts, don't let him come home because He is tired of living with his parents. He made that choice to move in with them. Make sure you give him stipulations before he comes back. I didn't do this, I was so "thrilled" that he came home that I just opened the door. Now I am paying for it and having to start all over trying to GAL and be trusting of him which is hard to do. I think it was easier when he was gone to get my self together because I didn't know what he was doing and I didn't care. Now with him home it is so much harder. I think I needed more time away from him to get myself in a better place.

It is very difficult with there is OW involved.

M-47, H-46
M24, T29
S19, S17
OW since 2007
Fighting ever since
H left 8/12
H home 11/12
still seeing OW