If your DB coach suggested it, then I would go with that, if YOU are good with it. It isn't going overboard pursuing, imo, just make sure any card isn't too mushy maybe?
At the end of the day, we have to do what is right for us, since their reaction is THEIR responsibility, so don't stress over it too much...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
