I've been following your sitch for a while and I just wanted to say thanks. I find my sitch, other than times frames, is very similar to yours. Although it may not seem that way when you read my post as I have a hard time articulating my thoughts and circumstances-this is one of the reasons your posts have been very helpful to me.
I'm very happy for you on the progress you've made. Hope you keep sharing
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing