SHE brought these up: "I'm not going to go stay with friend1 like a 12 year old." friend1 is an older couple who tried to counsel her in the beginning.."and I'd have to sleep standing up if I stayed w/friend2"..friend2 is a borderline hoarder. That's when I fixate and push with an attitude of "anywheres better than where you are!"
What is she trying to tell me by bringing this up?
I suggested to my W that she move in with a friend of hers as a trial separation to see if that's what she really wanted. She said she didn't "want to feel like a hobo". Your W probably feels the same. My W just wanted to go straight to the permanent separation, and that she did. Don't try to read anything into it, it's probably not a sign that your W wants to reconcile, just that she doesn't like those particular arrangements.
