I agree with Snodderly. There are sites more geared toward "friendships" - such as maybe meetup? You can join a group that shares your interests and it doesn't give off the same vibe as posting on a dating site.

Or maybe you could join a local gym or club (idk, reading, french poodles, what ever floats your boat).

Like AJM said, detach and focus on good-for-sam stuff. Because you have an interest in reuniting with your wife prob best to, for now, explore non-relationship areas.

Approach the mediator with an open mind, as a fact finding expedition. You will have a better idea where you stand legally - and knowledge is power.

Best of luck.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.